1 2 3 4 5

THE VOICE

Volume 5, Issue 11

Page 3

very intensive ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) program. You guessed it, we jumped on that bandwagon. It's a long story in itself. We had to relocate from our mountain retreat in order to participate in a half-day program and in order to get our in-home program off the ground. In truth, I think I was never meant to be a hermit, and people somehow didn't care to travel the switchback mountain road that I was growing very tired of travelling daily as well.

Our program was a 25-hour-per-week program that integrated many creative non-ABA elements into the schedule as Abby progressed wonderfully through the years. Our dedicated tutors became an integral part of our family's life. An additional and very helpful benefit to having these wonderful helpers in our life was that I was finally freed up to be Mom again to ALL of my children and I was no longer the sole person responsible for engaging and educating my daughter.

I am so grateful to all of the tutors, teachers, family members, and friends that have come alongside us in our journey. I encourage all of the families of children with autism to seek out the support you need, not only for your own sanity, but for the benefit of your whole family.

[Interested in sharing your story with others?  We invite you to send your "Spotlight Family of the Month" contribution  to info@aaccasa.org or P.O. Box 1470, Millersville, MD 21108]

Spotlight Family of the Month:
The Clarks
by Lucy Clark


Brian and I have four children: Jesse, Rachel, Daniel, and Abby. Our kids have grown up in the desert of southern California, but Brian and I are from the local area: Montgomery County (Brian) and D.C. (me).  In the fall of 2000 we relocated from southern California to Annapolis.  Our story is probably very similar to yours, except for some of the particulars of our circumstances.

Living in the desert can be extremely hot if you are not used to it; 116 - 122 degrees was not unusual in the summer. As newcomers to the environment we purchased a home at a cool 4,400 feet in the Santa Rosa mountains.  It was only 25 minutes from schools, work, shopping, and people. It was a beautiful mountain retreat with a 360-degree panoramic view of the mountains and the desert floor below.

When our youngest daughter, Abby, was about 20 months old, we had a visit from one of my brothers and his family. They had an 18-month-old at the time. Although we had suspicions that something was not quite right with Abby, particularly her non-responsiveness, I easily attributed this and other apparent delays to her poor vision. She had had two surgeries for strabismus (crossed eyes). During this visit I observed 18-month-old Anthony being so responsive, playful, and social that I somehow knew that I could no longer blame what I was seeing in Abby on her visual problems.

Of course our pediatrician had offered us no clues, and the results of the audiology report were good. She hears just fine. Sound familiar? Fortunately, through a few family connections (I have a very supportive family) we were able to get an early diagnosis from UCLA when Abby was two years old. Little did we know that having a diagnosis was just the beginning of a much bigger adventure into searching for information and knowledge.

Although we were devastated by what Abby may not ever be able to do or experience, I became driven to do whatever was possible. Abby's first mode of expressive communication was sign language, thanks largely in part to Brian's skills in that area. We also attended a weekly school-based program and had a weekly visit from her teacher.

Our biggest breakthrough occurred when Brian received a book from a woman he met on a work-related trip. The book was called "Let me Hear your Yoice ". It is a beautiful story about a family's

(continued on next column)

Autism Today News Magazine


Karen Leigh Simmons' experiences with her 10-year- old son Jonathan caused her to write a book called "Little Rainman." When she had difficulty finding useful information on autism, she launched a company called Exceptional Resources, Inc. (www.exceptionalresources.com) to make autism-related books, videos, and other materials more readily available to parents and professionals. Now she has launched an interactive online autism newsmagazine and community called Autism Today (www.autismtoday.com).

The magazine offers:
Articles from leading experts in the field;
Stories, poems, music and art from people with autism, their family and their friends;
A public discussion forum where readers can share stories, ideas and talk;
Polls and surveys where readers can voice their opinion;
A way for authors to publish their books online; and
Links to a variety of autism-related resources and sites.

1 2 3 4 5